furiousgoldfish: Let’s play, “was I abused” game! Reblog and bold the things your parents have done to you! Italicize if you’re not sure. (copy paste it all and then bold) Physical abuse parent slapped me to prove their point/teach me a lesson parent spanked me as a “punishment” saying it was for my own good parent … Continue reading

How to tell if it’s getting bad again:

threebabies: – sleeping too much or not at all – eating too much or too little – sounding disinterested in everything – being spaced out a lot – rambling a lot or not talking at all – losing track of time – making cynical comments, usually about yourself – pushing people away – tend to … Continue reading How to tell if it’s getting bad again:

Unrecognized signs of abuse

traumaeyed: This list includes signs I exhibited while being abused and afterwards, as well as signs I’ve seen other abused youth display, all of which are less commonly recognized for what they are: red flags in disguise.  Being described as a “perfectionist” or having an extremely competitive attitude to the point of experiencing breakdowns if you … Continue reading Unrecognized signs of abuse

recoveringfangirl: trauma-suggestion: lapvslazuli: silvernis: samwellhaus: knightofthestars: so hey who else was taught as a kid that “”””wanting attention”””” in any way was wrong and shameful and has grown up unable ask for help or support even in great distress/suffering Parent: why do you never come to me for help (two days later) Me: I need help … Continue reading

shoujocowboy: tiptoe39: avpdkicking: anyone else live under the assumption that they’re constantly doing something wrong How about the assumption that everyone’s just being polite and any minute now they’re going to snap and let you know how awful you are Everyone who reblogs this post, please read about the psychological phenomena of Childhood Emotional Neglect.

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